
In Feb. of 2008, Jared's friend invited him to run a full marathon with him in May of 2008. Jared laughed out loud to his friend, then said, "Maybe next year!" And so it began.
Jared decided to train for a full marathon, and I decided to join him. Up to that point, I had only dabbled in running a little here and there before Sam was born, but I was looking for an outlet for the stress I was feeling in my life.
Training went well for a while. At the suggestion from our neighbor, we followed the James Galloway method of running, and we liked it. I had 2 great running buddies - Jared and my girlfriend, Lachelle. Two days a week, Lachelle loaded up her daughter, and I loaded up Sam in jogging strollers and off we went. I was surprised by how much I loved it!
Due to some injuries and fertility treatments, I didn't run that first full marathon with Jared; I ran a 5k that day instead and I was disappointed. So I became determined to run a longer race, and continued my training. Unfortunately, I continued to have issues with my IT band injury. Jared, being the awesome and supportive husband he is, found me a running coach. Bill Wilson with Camelback Coaching in Scottsdale. So Wonderful! He and his wife, Ann train triathletes. He analyzed my running and taught me how to run properly, and for 7 months gave me training schedules to get me to my first half marathon. It was so fantastic!
Three weeks before that first half marathon, I injured my foot...chipped a bone in it to be exact!!! I freaked out! I had been working so hard for this moment of redemption, and now I thought I was going to have to give up on it again. Bill assured me it would be OK, and had me train on a stationary bike for 2 weeks. The week of the race, I ran two short, easy runs. The night before the race, I panicked because I hadn't run the distance ever before, and I worried I wouldn't make it. I worried my foot would start hurting too much, I worried that I wouldn't have enough or the right kind of fuel for the miles. But, I had done everything Bill had told me to do, and so I just trusted that an elite athlete like him who also trains other elite athletes knows what he is talking about and it would all work out. And it did! I made it through, and even made my time goal that I had made before I hurt my foot! I passed people for the last 3 miles of the race, and when I crossed the finish line, Jared was there to meet me and I hugged him and all of the emotions and hard work, and fear and anger of the previous year just came flooding out in sobs. I felt cleansed and lighter and stronger. And I was hooked-I was a runner!


Jared is also a runner now, and it is really fun to be able to encourage each other and compare notes and to race together. Interestingly, even though it's a sport we took up together, we don't actually run together. It didn't take long before we realized that Jared was much faster than me, and so we sometimes run at the same time, but we don't stay together. Maybe one of these days I will catch up with him...